Has your relationship just ended in a break up? Need tips on getting back together?
It’s a fact that as we go through our lives and date, we tend to get involved in the cycle of what I call “break up getting back together”. One day, something insignificant happens and before you know it, you break up and then you obsess over getting back together. It happens to millions of people every single day.
Has this ever happened to you before? Somehow, you end up in a fight with someone you love over something that had nothing to do with anything and before you can blink, the relationship is over. For example, you ask your boyfriend to stop by the store and pick up some bread. He says “Sure” but two hours later, he strolls in, without the bread and you go off! You start yelling at him about how he never remembers to do anything you ask him to do and he yells back that it’s just bread – he will go get it later. You yell back “That’s not the point, I wanted it now”. The argument escalates out of control – over a stupid loaf of bread – and all of a sudden you are broken up.
This cycle of “break up getting back together” happens every single day around the world. When the argument has ended (usually with someone storming out), you wonder what the heck happened and how did you end up breaking up over something as stupid as a loaf of bread! Or some other trivial thing that really means nothing!
If you really want to get your ex back, you need to stop playing the victim and get down to work. Do you really want to break up with someone over something trivial? Most people would agree that they don’t want to end a relationship over something so stupid.
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